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Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

June 13, 2013

The Teacher In Me ~ Keeping the Learning Going

I'll admit it, when it comes to learning, I let go in the summer.  As a teacher by trade,  I know I should encourage my kids to keep their skills up so there isn't so much loss in the summer, but I'm just so exhausted from the school year, that the last thing I want to do is fight with my kids to do work.  So I slack off.  I'm such a bad mommy & teacher....

Not this year!  It's a summer goal of mine to keep the learning going.   
  


Reading:

This is an easy one.  Pick up a book and read.  

I base the time of reading around The Nag.  However long it takes him to read a chapter, that's how long Little Ricky needs to read.  (Not to mention that Little Ricky is like his mommy, once he starts reading, he doesn't want to put it down.)  

We recently cleaned out our home library.  We donated a bunch of books that the kids have outgrown to our school and to cousins.  Now, we have tons of chapter books left for summer reading.  Right now, the boys are working on The Magic Tree House series.  We also have plans to make it to the public library.  


Math:

The boys' teachers sent home Summer Math Packets for the kids.  They are essentially the math worksheets that the class didn't finish during the school year, so it's a nice bridge to the learning that will take place next year.   I have them work on 2-3 pages every few days. 

My husband also likes to ask them "hard" math facts (addition, subtraction, and multiplication) while we are in the car or eating a meal, so they can work on their recall.  Sometimes, if we are at a restaurant, we make up math problems for them on their "kiddie menus" for them to solve. 




Writing:

Another easy one.  We have marble notebooks that we use as journals.  We got them at the Dollar Tree.  I have them write a paragraph or two about what we did that day.  They also like to write stories from time to time.  Little Ricky just wrote a book as a gift for Father's Day.  (Totally his idea)  I also plan to work on their handwriting....it's awful!!


Science:

The boys LOVE science!  My plan is to do at least one cool science experiment every other week or so.  I also want to take them to The Miami Science Museum for the first time.  We are also planning on revisiting The Fort Lauderdale Museum of Science and Discovery.  These places should get those little scientific brains going!



I'm not saying that I'm home schooling this summer.  Just an hour every couple of days.  Mostly on the days when we don't have an outside activity planned or it seems they may just kill each other.  


What do you do to keep the learning going in the summer?  I would love more ideas!


Alexis

June 6, 2013

Summer Fun Ideas Found on Pinterest

Summer is HERE!!  A time of late bedtimes and no alarm clocks....total carefree living!  Days of shorts, swimsuits and flip flops. 

What happens when the weather doesn't cooperate?  We have been on vacation for 13 days and we've only had one pretty day so far.  If this keeps up, we are going to have a L-O-N-G summer!!

13 Days Down....74 More To Go.....

So what can you do to keep the kids entertained without spending too much money?  (Not to mention so they don't kill each other...or me killing them!)

I have been wanting to create flubber with the kids....I think they would like it and it's definitely a "boy" activity.  Since boys really like messy and fun things, it's right up our alley.  (oohh....bowling...that's another idea for another day)



Of course I went to the "almighty Pinterest" for ideas.  Now let's see if I can get off of it long enough to actually DO some of these things!!


Do you have any ideas that will keep these kids from killing each other??

Alexis

May 30, 2013

Curiosityville Sitrs Up Curiosity

Disclaimer:  This post was created through my partnership with Curiosityville and The Motherhood.  Although I was compensated and received a subscription for Curiosityville, all opinions are my own.  



Do your kids like playing games online?  Mine do.  I try to be cautious about the types of games they are playing.  I would really like them all to be educational, but sometimes the educational ones just aren't that interesting for the kids. 

Curiosityville is a fun and personalized learning world for children ages 3-8.  This awesome website boosts brain power, creates learning and understanding in core areas, and establishes a fun and inviting place for kids to learn and create.  Curiosityville has been created in partnership with National Geographic, Johns Hopkins University, and other learning experts so you know it's academic!


Once your child is logged in, they can choose which character they would like to learn with that day.  Here are the characters:
  • Rosie is a scientist
  • Jack is the policeman
  • Joe is the mayor
  • Ruby is a teacher
  • Pablo is an artist
  • Olive is a chef

In each character's room, there are many different activities and games for your child to explore.  "The Nag" really loved Rosie because he wants to be a scientist when he grows up.  His favorite game was Space Mission in Jack's room.  He was able to shoot astroids and comets all while listening to facts about space and practicing math facts.

Rosie the Scientist teaches about the brain.
Space Mission
Space Mission


As your child maneuvers through the site, apples are given for completed activities.  After a number of apples are accumulated, a badge is awarded.  The badges are stored on a special page. 

 
Want to know a cool part?  The Learning Tree page actually maps out your child's learning as they move through the site.  Parents can view various charts to see their child's strengths and where they need more practice.  You also get a personalized email detailing your child's progress.  Did I mention there are timer settings so your child doesn't stay online too long?  COOL!

 

I highly recommend Curiosityville to all families with kids ages 3-8.  It's such a great way to incorporate learning, creativity and technology!  Not to mention that the content is updated weekly, so your child will have something to keep their brains working throughout the summer! 






Alexis

May 8, 2013

My Mom's Advice + Giveaway from Aquaphor

My mom (Babs) with the boys.
My mom isn't the kind of mom to tell you what you should or should not do as a mom.  She doesn't really even offer advice until you explicitly ask her for it.  I love that about her because there are so many people who shove their advice down your throat whether you want it or not.  


My mom's best advice was the kind that she never said, it's the things she did while raising me that I use in my daily parenting skills.

I never really understood all that my mother did or why she acted the way that she did while I was growing up.  I never really understood it all until now that I'm a mom.  For instance, when I was a kid, she would only let me sleep at a friend's house if she knew the parents.  I thought that was so dumb!  I knew the kid and the mom, wasn't that enough?  Now that I'm a mom, I'm so on that page!  My kids can't sleep at anyone's house unless we are friends with the family.  And to be honest, the only houses outside of family they are allowed to sleep at are our "Cuban cousins" house.  You know, the friends that are so close they are practically family.  

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*Disclaimer:  Although I was compensated for this post, all opinions about my mom and Aquaphor are my own.

 
Alexis

May 6, 2013

My Angel's First Communion

Photo by Angela Raymat Photography
Little Ricky received his First Holy Communion this past weekend.  We feel so blessed that this little guy is growing up learning and loving the Catholic faith as we have.  

It was so amazing watching him as he said all of his prayers, sang the hymns, and went before the priest to receive the eucharist for the very first time.  What a blessing for parents to witness!

He was surrounded by family and friends who love and support his faith.  We couldn't be happier!





God Bless Little Ricky & the rest of the little munchkins who received their First Holy Communion this year!

Alexis

April 23, 2013

Cheap & Easy Mother's Day Gifts

Mother's Day is around the corner.  A day for all you exhausted moms out there to be recognized and honored for all that you do!

In the past, my husband and kids have given me great gifts.  Perfume, flowers, DIAMOND EARRINGS....  Let's just say I've been spoiled.  This year, we are on a major budget so I won't be expecting any big ticket items.  That's why I've put together this list of cheap and easy Mother's Day gifts that would mean so much to me.


*Mommy Journal:
No, I'm not hoping to become the next "Bridget Jones."  I saw this somewhere before (don't remember where).  It's an unlined journal where your kids can write you a note or draw a picture each year.  What a great keepsake to look at each year on Mother's Day or any holiday really.




*Coupon book:
This is an ol' faithful.  I would love a coupon book with chores that the kids (and husband) promise to do.  I would just hope that they put enough coupons in it so that I can cash in the whole year through!
 



*Breakfast in bed:
My husband makes yummy breakfasts.  I would love a tray all decked out with a rose, hot coffee, and all the regular breakfast trimmings like you see in the movies.
 



*Alone time:
This one goes hand in hand with breakfast in bed.  I want them to drop off the breakfast & then leave me to my own devices.  Is that mean?  I love them.  I really, really do.  If it wasn't for them, I wouldn't be a mom, so I really should want to spend it with them.  But come on.....I need a day off!


What are some ways that you want to feel appreciated this Mother's Day?

Alexis

April 21, 2013

South Florida Finds ~ Summer Camps

Summer is almost here!  No more classroom, no more books, no more....well, you get it.  Teachers are excited to relax and unwind and recharge their batteries for the next school year, parents are excited to not have to argue about homework for a few months, and kids are excited to relax and have fun with their own agendas.


What kind of summer do you have planned?  Are you a stay at home parent who likes to be the "director" of your child's summer, or are you a working parent who needs a place for your child to be entertained and taken care of at summer camp?

As a teacher, I'm off, so my summers usually consist of relaxing for a couple of weeks and then the fighting begins.  My kids just seem to need a break from each other for a while.  So we like to put them in camp for a couple of weeks sporadically throughout the summer.  They are far apart in age that they are never in the same group, therefore they actually miss each other during the day so they play better in the afternoons.  (Not to mention they actually miss me too....so we all win!)

Here is a list of some South Florida summer camps:

*Zoo Miami ~ Zoofari Summer Camp
Ages 4-13 (Kindergarten-8th grade)
$195/week  $175/week for members
At Zoo Miami, the kids get close encounters with the animals at the zoo, educational themes that revolve around animals both tame and wild, visits and presentations from the zookeeper and Banfield Pet Hospital FutureVets program, arts & crafts, and water play.  Themes are based on the age groups' level of interest.

*Fit2Play, Green-It-Up Summer Camps
Ages 6-14 
$40-$90/week (financial assistance & scholarship available to those who qualify)
Miami-Dade Parks in partnership with University of Miami Health System offer this camp to teach children the fundamentals of living a healthy lifestyle through nutrition, fitness and exercise.  They also learn the health benefits of going green through recycling, water conservation, and other eco-friendly behaviors that help the planet.

*Miami Stone Crabs Lacrosse Camp
Kindergarten-12th grade 
$200 before May 8; $225 before June 8; $250 June 9-10
This is a one week camp from 3pm-7pm for boys and girls to learn the fundamentals of lacrosse.  Players must provide their own equipment.

*Miami Dade College Kids/Teen College Summer Programs
Ages 7-17
Approx. $110 per class
Miami Dade College offers a wide variety of summer classes for youth including dance like ballet, hip hop and zumba; etiquette courses; varied sports like soccer, tennis and golf; acting; cartooning; photography; and robotics using LEGOS.  

*School of Rock
All ages
$499-$999/week
Rock N’ Roll boot camps are 5 days of learning music, playing music, fun, band bonding and performance! Throughout the week kids go from zero to a full set of songs and performance at a local all ages venue. Group rehearsal, music trivia, song casting, one-on-one attention from all-star instructors, gear education, and band-related activities are all aimed at helping kids learn a set of songs and be totally ready to rock them by the end of the week. Whether you play drums, sing, shred guitar or bass or play keyboard -- you’ll have a blast.  


There are SO many choices at different venues throughout Miami for many age groups and for any budget.  

What are your summer plans?

 
Alexis

April 18, 2013

Sane Traveling ~ Cocoa Beach

For our spring vacation this year, we decided to explore an area of Florida that is new to us.  We live in Miami, a stone's throw to Ft. Lauderdale and West Palm Beach.  We've been to Naples and are always in Orlando.  This time we chose to visit Cocoa Beach

Despite the fact that a tornado came through the area and kept us in our hotel room for a day; and then the weather turned really cold, so we couldn't spend as much time at the beach as we wanted; we had a great time exploring the area.




Things to do in Cocoa Beach:

Beach
Well, this is just a given.  The sand is so different from the beaches here in South Florida.  It's so soft.  Since it was windy, the waves were great as well.  (My boys love jumping the waves.)  We actually parked at Ron Jon's Surf Shop for free and walked the short walk to the beach.  

  
Ron Jon's Surf Shop
Ron Jon Surf Shop is recognized world-wide as an icon of the surf and beach lifestyle.  The location in Cocoa Beach is the World's Largest Surf Shop and is Ron Jon’s "One of a Kind" flagship facility.  The best part: it's open 24 hours a day!  Not only can you buy your favorite beach essentials, but they rent them too.  
 
Golf 'n Gator Mini Golf
Golf 'n Gator is a 36 hole mini golf course.  The kids had so much fun competing against each other.  (The hubby & I also had our own competition.)  Not only did they practice their putting skills, but they were vying for the coveted "hole in one."  Golf 'n Gator also has live alligators that you can feed and pose with.  Yeah, I skipped that part!
 
Kennedy Space Center
Well, this goes without saying.  Kennedy Space Center is NASA's launch headquarters and the only place on Earth where you can tour launch areas, meet a veteran astronaut, see giant rockets, train in spaceflight simulators, and even view a launch.  Now there's a new Angry Birds Space play area where kids can create their own Angry Bird, shoot pigs using a lifesized slingshot, and even make it through a laser maze.
 
Cocoa Beach Pier
This historic Cocoa Beach Pier was built in 1962 and stands 800ft. above the ocean.  It has 5 restaurants, 4 bars, and a gift shop.  You can rent fishing equipment and catch the varied fish in the ocean.  We actually saw a group catch a baby hammerhead shark...the boys were AMAZED! 







We had a great time visiting a new spot in our Sunshine State!  Have you ever traveled to Cocoa Beach?  Do you have any recommendations for the next time we visit?

  Alexis

April 15, 2013

TeachHub ~ The Latest Resource for Teachers

 
As a teacher, I'm always on the hunt for the most current practices, as well as ideas and techniques to use in the classroom.  TeachHUB is the newest place for teachers to go for up-to-date education information, a place to share ideas and "borrow" others, and where you can go to find professional development of your choosing.  

TeachHUB's mission is to improve the quality of education by making available the most current, complete and affordable resources for all K-12 Educators.  "Built by Teachers, for Teachers, we offer free lesson plans, the latest in education news, professional development and real teacher blogs plus the tools and applications modern Educators need to maintain a level of excellence in their classrooms."  TeachHUB.com provides the latest in education technology, news and tools. It's a great free resource for all K-12 teachers.

My favorite part?  I really like that on the home page, they list the top 7 stories using pictures.  This way I can see at a quick glance the newest topics being featured.  It really draws me in.
 

Recently I administered a survey to my students asking them varied questions about what they know about reading, who their favorite characters are, and what do they know about certain library topics.  Some of the questions were really easy for the kids to answer, you know about fiction and nonfiction, their favorite books, and even how they like to read.  But some questions boggled their minds...especially "what does your teacher do in the summer".  (You should have seen some of the answers for that one!)

Check out the first infographic made by kids:






 
TeachHUB.com is a free resource for teachers and parents who want the latest in education news and technology. You can see the latest articles from TeachHUB by subscribing to their Facebook page or following them on Twitter.
 



I was selected for this opportunity by Clever Girls Collective, and content and opinions expressed here are all my own. To learn more about the TeachHUB.com, visit their website. #CleverTeachers #NLW13


Alexis

April 11, 2013

Pay It Forward Friday ~ Is Football Becoming Safer?

John O'Connor is a full time husband and father, part time outdoorsman and a new blogger.  He has an extreme passion for healthy aging and living a healthy lifestyle. 

Check him out at Blogging With John O.

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Only a few years ago, very few people paid attention to the
long-term effects of playing football. A series of high-profile reports, however, has changed this, and many people are now beginning to see how dangerous football can be if safety procedures are not enforced. Fortunately, football has become considerably safer in recent years, and parents should rest assured that efforts are underway to make the sport even safer.  Over the past couple of years, the NFL has been implementing and changing many rules to help make the game not only safe for professionals but also for teenagers who play in high school/college and young children who are playing recreationally in pop warner leagues.   As parents it is our job to make sure that our children are safe at all times.  Here are some injuries that are not just common in football but in many other contact sports as well. 


Concussions

Concussions have received more attention in the past few years than any other type of sports injury, and new studies have shown that multiple concussions can lead to lifelong problems.  In the past, concussions were not taken as seriously as they are today.  Many athletes who suffered from concussions sometimes did not even come out of the game they were playing in.  Other times they would be diagnosed with a concussion and end up returning to play too early before they were properly healed.  


Common symptoms of a concussion may be a headache, nausea, confusion or dizziness.  More serious concussions may result in permanent memory loss or even hearing loss.  If hearing loss occurs and is serious enough, hearing aids may be used to help increase hearing levels.  Fortunately, there are now some ways to mitigate the damage done by concussions and help to try and eliminate situations that result in severe hearing loss. The following guidelines should be implemented not only my parents but by coaches and athletic trainers as well:


-If a concussion has been suffered, the player should seek immediate assistance and be checked out by a primary care doctor.
 
- A injured player should not return until symptoms have completely resolved for at least five days.

 
- Protective headgear must be worn at all times in all sports.


-Not only should head gear be worn, but it should be worn properly.
 
- Proper hitting technique in football and other sports can help protect against concussions and other head related injuries



 

Knee Damage

Knee damage is also very common in all sports, and many athletes will suffer at least minor knee sprains along the way. While it can be difficult to prevent all knee injuries, responding properly to knee injuries can lead to better outcomes down the road. A popular injury to the knee is the ACL tear.  The ligaments around the knee, especially the ACL help in supporting the knee when running, jumping, rotating and landing.  When torn it makes participation in sports very difficult. 


Again, strict guidelines should be implemented, and parents should be educated on how they can help their children prevent ligament tears and the signs they should be looking for if their child may be suffering from a torn ACL:


-To help prevent ACL tears, specific balance and strength exercises can be done to strengthen the muscles of the leg and around the knee.

-Children should only participate in strength and conditioning programs if they are old enough and have been cleared by their doctor.  

-Athletes should perform necessary warm-ups to keep muscles loose throughout practice and games.  

- A doctor should be contacted if there is any question about a knee injury. Many severe knee injuries begin as minor injuries and worsen over time because they are not checked out.



 

Heat-Related Injuries

Two very common injuries that can occur from playing sports especially in the summer months of the year are dehydration and heat strokes.  There are many things that we as parents can do to help prevent dehydration and heat stroke from happening to our children:



-  -Always wear sunscreen.

-  -Hydration is a must.

-  -Not only should our children be drinking plenty of water during games and practices, but they should also be gradually drinking water during the day leading up to the game or practice.  

-  -Children should wear lightweight clothing that allows the body to breathe and sweat properly.  Along with lighter shaded clothing that does not attract the sun.

-  -Practice and games should be played during the hours of the day that aren’t the hottest.  Morning practices and late evening games would be the best bet.


Sports are great way to teach kids valuable skills and proper exercise, but there are some risks involved in all sports. By following safety guidelines and ensuring that kids and parents are doing all that is possible to try and prevent against injuries, sports can be enjoyable for all who are involved. 






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If you would like to be a part of my Pay It Foward Friday segment, please email me.

 
Alexis

April 9, 2013

Spring Cleaning (With Child Labor)

So, it's no secret that I'm pretty exhausted most of the time.  Between my two VERY active boys with an ever growing social calendar, my husband who also needs attention, my full time job as an elementary teacher, blogging, grocery shopping, laundry, cleaning, and my need to have "me" time, I am pretty booked up.  

I have always been one of those people who subscribed to the belief of "if you want something done right, do it yourself," therefore I was always doing things on my own for fear of things not getting done right.  And by "right" I mean "my way."  

In the past few years I have learned to let go of this crazy notion.  I was tired of being tired.  I was tired of being the only one doing things.  So I started "letting" other people help me....especially around the house.  

My husband is really good about helping when he's home.  He will do the laundry; things may not get put away in the right place, but at least he does the cleaning.  He will also help with the grocery shopping.  He may not buy the brands that I want, but at least he goes there.  

Now I'm starting to let go of some of the cleaning chores.  I'm giving them to my kids.  They are 6 & 8 years old, I think it's time to start earning their keep around here!

Here are some ways I enlisted their help for our "spring cleaning" this year:


  • Emptying the dryer
  • Folding the laundry-This took a little time from me.  The socks were easy.  Folding shirts was more of an art.
  • Putting away laundry-I like to lay out all of the clean and folded clothes on my bed and make piles for each family member.  Then everyone puts away their own piles.
  • Putting away clean dishes-I have plastic tableware for the kids and it is kept at an easily accessible level for them.  
  • Vacuuming-I made this one sound fun to "Little Ricky." (hee, hee!)
  • Cleaning the shower-"The Nag" always wants to wear yellow gloves and spray a bottle.  I mixed vinegar and water in an empty spray bottle.  Then I sprinkled baking soda in each shower for him and set him to work with a scrubber.  
  • Making beds-It never comes out perfect, but at least it's straight.
  • Picking up toys

Again, the "cleaning" may not be how I want it, but at least it's taking some of the load off of my shoulders.  And it's teaching my kids the value of responsibility.  (and I didn't even have to pay them for it!)
  
How do you get your kids to help out around the house? 


Alexis

March 19, 2013

Better TV Shows Make All the Difference

Do you believe that TV can make all the difference in the world with your kids?   I am a complete believer.  




When my boys watched TV for the first time, I was very careful about what they could and could not watch.  Yes to anything educational.  You know, Sesame Street, Blues Clues, Super WhyI feel those shows really helped my kids to not only understand sounds and their connection to letters, but also gave them lessons in manners and social skills.

I am not totally opposed to TV for my kids.  If I were, I would be a complete hypocriteI love watching TV to unwind and laugh and get away from the craziness of my life. 

My kids are in that age range that no TV show is a perfect fit.  The shows they used to watch, they have outgrown.  Then there is TV for bigger kids, but it is harder to find shows that will both appeal to them and me.  The cartoons are too aggressive or are geared toward teenagers.  Then the "live people" shows are also marketed for middle to high school aged kids and the story lines are too mature for my boys.   There is no happy medium for an 8 & 6 year old.

Have you ever noticed how TV can affect your child's behaviorIt's so strange that depending on the TV show that my kids watch, their demeanor changes completely.  For example, when they watch Kickin' It, they want to fight since the show is all about karate.  Not to mention, Little Ricky has such a great memory that he recites lines from shows all the time.  (It's really more annoying than it seems!)

Check out this infographic from Education News below.  Do you feel that better TV means better kids?  I would really love to know what you think about it. 
 





Better TV Infographic



Do you allow your kids to watch TV?  What shows are your kids watching?  How do you help them make better choices?



*Infographic and information were shared by EducationNews.org.


Alexis
 
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